{"id":6723,"date":"2019-09-14T10:45:47","date_gmt":"2019-09-14T05:45:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/umang.pk\/2019\/09\/letter-to-your-child-life-and-style\/"},"modified":"2019-09-14T10:45:47","modified_gmt":"2019-09-14T05:45:47","slug":"letter-to-your-child-life-and-style","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/umang.pk\/ur\/2019\/09\/14\/letter-to-your-child-life-and-style\/","title":{"rendered":"Letter to Your Child | Life and style"},"content":{"rendered":"<div itemprop=\"articleBody\" data-test-id=\"article-review-body\">\n<p><span class=\"drop-cap\"><span class=\"drop-cap__inner\">I<\/span><\/span>t occurs every time. I know it, I do not blame it. It happened a little too often except for me and now I&#39;m practicing in my late 40&#39;s and I can&#39;t think terrible every time I announce that my friend is pregnant. friendship.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>I am a woman without children by choice. Great career, great husband, many international vacations. I am satisfied with my life. But it became an inevitable fact that friendship changes every time one of my girlfriends has a baby. I understand that my friend&#39;s life has changed. I also enjoy spending time with my children as their favorite aunts and watching them grow. But what about me? How is our friendship?<\/p>\n<p>I am your caring and dedicated friend. I remember my favorite food to ask about the health of my father who changed your life in high school. I did not always expect to be your priority. But it will be a pleasure and comfort to feel like I&#39;m your priority at times.<\/p>\n<p>A few years ago, a friend announced that she got closer to me and I blurted. Maybe we will be able to spend the night together! \u201dWithout stopping to consider the option she said\u201c I am a mom now! \u201dHer tone was clear.<\/p>\n<aside class=\"element element-rich-link element--thumbnail element-rich-link--not-upgraded\" data-component=\"rich-link\" data-link-name=\"rich-link-1 | 1\">\n<\/aside>\n<p>The person I consider to be my best friend only responds to the invitation with different dates and plans, and for the night I know that I have a duty of standing. It always breaks my heart as much as my friend fills my heart to know that she is happy with the children she wants.<\/p>\n<p>I wonder if my friends would like to reestablish our connection when the children leave home. I wonder why I can&#39;t find a babysitter once a year or leave my children with a partner so they can talk and drink good wine on their patio without throwing pebbles into a neighboring garden.<\/p>\n<p>But what I&#39;m curious about is how can I say these words to them. As a woman without children, I have to \u201cunderstand\u201d that a relationship changes, which means a relationship that always gets sad.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"bullet\">\u2022<\/span> You pay \u00a3 25 for every letter we issue. Email family@theguardian.com with your address and phone number. We can only answer those we will contribute.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>        .<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It occurs every time. I know it, I do not blame it. It happened a little too often except for me and now I&#39;m practicing in my late 40&#39;s and I can&#39;t think terrible every time I announce that my friend is pregnant. friendship.&quot; I am a woman without children by choice. 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